I find I have it, the ability to move with the flow. I am working with a new client. Such is my feelings of sympathy for him, it became empathy. I could feel for him and that silently, without saying anything. He gets very very tired, it takes him ten minutes just to get up from sitting to standing position. I stood and waited for him to be ready, not pushing him in the least. At the end of the day, he would call me and smiled. We grew close and bonded within that single day though it is that of carer and client. Nothing beyond that.